When I first decided to go to LOS there was a brief initial thought "what will people think".Quicky I realized that if someone would judge me for what I do behind closed doors with consenting adults their opinion means nothing to me.So thats how I live.
But realisticly I work for a company of 300 and after telling a few friends the whole story,many more people get half a story,and the rest get a little bit of the story.I've had friends(married and single friends) who say they'd go to LOS in an instant but they wouldn't tell anyone they went THERE!Since I dive,whitewater kayak,race my Mustang,and carry canoes over mountains to access backcountry trout fishing people generally expect something "out there" from my vacations.For these reasons I don't think I'm labeled as purely a sex tourist but it's safe to say the rumours of P4P have made their rounds.I'm thick skinned and I don't care but maybe I should just a little???
So I'm curious about other BM's.Do you tell your co workers anything?Because this is juicy news and people love to talk word always gets around.I don't see any way to keep this a total secret(unless you're married therefore highly motivated
)Mmmm even then.
Something Dodger said the other day made me consider this.A friend of his said he'd like to go to LOS but what would people think.Dodger said well what do they think of me.His reply..Well you're Dodger.I think I fall into this category.
So BM's thoughts..is this something that should be kept under wraps(almost impossible) or is a clear concious ample reason to brush it off and live how you want?I can see practical reasons for secrecy.Offended clients,future relationships with a farang girl(heaven forbid) but to be honest it's water under the bridge now for me.
I'm interested in other's stories.
