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Koh Samui
I’ve just spent 2 weeks in Thailand and what can I say! An amazing place… I’ve not long got back home to the UK and I want to get back out there!! And this is my 3rd trip :p
Anyway what I’m here to ask is a question on bar girls, I’ve only been with a few on my trips but this time when in Koh Samui I met a girl in a night club (Sub) all was going really well and we had a good night out and she came back to my hotel room with me, we spent the night together and in the morning went for some food and met up with my friends by the pool… she stayed for most of the morning with me, then said she had to go. At this point I’m thinking nothing of it, really nice girl and I liked her a lot, so I asked what she was doing later that day and for the rest of the week… she pulled me to one said and said she works for a bar and that she’d like to come out with me but I’d have to pay the bar fine, I was a little taken back but thought OK what bar and what time do you start? I got there before she started and once she showed up I paid the bar fine there and then.
Well we end up spending the week together and she told me why she in working in a bar and about her son and family and just got along like any 2 people would… my friends wife is Thai and from what I can work out this girl does seem to really like me, she has asked if I’d come back in December and take her back to her home, we did seem to have the boy friend girl friend thing going on, and the guy who owns the bar was treating me as her boy friend. She did take care of me and look after me… she never once asked for any money and on my last day she wouldn’t accept anything from me also. I know from reading and what my friend has told me about Thai girls brining a guy home to meet the parents is a really big thing for them, and the way we were together for the week did make me feel she wasn’t lying and she did cry a hell of a lot the night before I went home and things…
I have sent her a text message and email letting her know I’m back in the UK and asking how she is, but no reply at the moment.
What I’m asking is should I go back in December and see if what has been said happens? I do really like the girl but I just have in the back of my mind could this just be some bar girl trick? Is she playing with me? And what are peoples thoughts on dating a bar girl and in time taking the girl away from the bar? How hard was it coping with the thought that the girl you’ve started to fall for is a bar girl?
Sorry for the strange post, I’ve just got back home from Thailand and just a little confused on what to do next.
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