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Originally Posted by Heywood
Lene,
Hello and welcome to the board, I like the fact that your out here asking questions to guys about this, but I have to tell you I'm a little confused.
Don't you think that it is important that you be the right woman for him? It sounds like your only concerned with his wants/desires, if a man really loves you then the size of your breast or any other body part just don't matter. Love is blind.
I'm curious what his reaction would be if you started telling him how you liked bigger C0cks and how your last boyfriend had a big one....
I guess what I am saying here is I don't understand, sorry I don't. If you find yourself with a person who does not have what you want, then you move on...love someone as they are and for who they are and maybe just maybe you will have a chance at being happy.....being with a person who you are trying to make happy will only end in you wasting valuable time...time that could have been spent with someone who loves you just as you are.
Good luck...
P.S I wouldn't mind seeing a picture of you myself.  |
Hi Heywood,
Personality wise we're very compatible and we've both agreed to that. I'm not the jealous controlling sort of woman. But he has admitted to me before (when we were friends) that 1 woman is not enough for him. at least for the past 5 years after his last gf he did not have a steady gf, only a few lovers who understood their 'roles'.I know a lot about his sexual history.
so you could say that we didn't plan on getting together. But we got on so well that it couldn't be helped! So, not too long after that, he told me that he has to make a tough decision on whether he could give up his occasional lovers for one woman. He said he felt lonely and empty and wanted someone to take care of him the way I did.
I tried telling myself that perhaps I could be open and let him have his lovers, (like how tintin's wife generously lets him.she is like a saint.) but it is not easy for a young woman to do this. I always believe that if you love someone you wouldn't want him to allow you to have lovers either.
He is an extremely frank/honest person. Sometimes the things he says are so blunt it can make you go 'ouch'. Comments like " that blouse would look better on you if you had bigger boobs" or " I wish your boobs were bigger so that I could lie on your lap and suckle like a baby" (anyone, feel free to laugh). to begin with, women are naturally very conscious about their looks/appearance.
also, the thing that sticks to me the most is that he has repeatedly told me that he knows himself really well and he cannot do the same thing long term. In this case, have sex with 1 person only long term. Once in a while (not too often but just occasionally) he would like to have sex with someone else.I know many men feel this way.
Imagine, at this early stage he's already lamenting about your breasts, what would the long term prospects even be like?
Hm. You know, typing this makes me depressed.
I should be a lesbian.