Need some advice from old hands on this forum.
I am happily married to a TG for a year now and had spent all my savings to pay off the dowry. My wife is travelling to and from LOS and we are getting the necessary paper work done to allow her to stay with me permantely. Just when things seems to be going on well, the past came back to haunt me...
A jap who apparently dumped my wife after making promises to marry and starting a family is trying to make come back. He got my wife pregnant 4 years ago and walk out on her soon after. The reason that he walks out on my wife is that he is getting married to a Jap girl and now that they are divorced, he wants to make up to my wife.
He told my mother in law that he is willing to buy a house for my wife and sending her $$$$$ every month and eventually bring them (my wife and their kid) back to Japan. From what i know he is a businessman and have lots to offer compared to what i have now (nothing).
My wife is planning to get something out of the situation (hopefully a house) so that their kid can have a better future, which i think is not a good idea. I think you have to give inorder to receive and I don not want my wife to be sleeping with him for that house. I strongly disagree.
She might be testing me AGAIN, but to be on the safe side. What should i tell my wife to prevent a change of hearts? I have put in so much time, $$ and effort, I can’t afford to loose her. What should I do..???
Sorry for my poor command of English... I can't really write...
