[Denver]

Originally Posted by cotambear

kind and wise words denver

I just hope the kids alright! Day in, Day out on this Forum we see this sort of thing and it's a great outlet for your feelings if you perhaps have no other avenue to go down!

We can all say how we would personally treat a woman. Slap her in the chops, tell her to pack her bags, kick her ar4e out the door, kiss and make up, give the relationship another go etc etc!! We are all different! Could I have carried on living with my wife after knowing what I found out, as if nothing had happened? No, I couldn't! That's me!!!.........Some blokes get turned on by the fact thier wives puts it out a bit!!! We are all different!

Slagging a bloke off because he doesn't follow what 'you' feel is the right course of action in the treatment of his wife isn't, IMHO, helping this kid much!

Yeah it hurts, it's fcuking painful. The lad turned to the forum for help (as I notice tons of other regular posters do) and all I wanted to do was tell him that if it has all gone pear-shaped for him that it is going to hurt like a b1tch for quite a long time yet.................but I also wanted to tell Mal that it does get better and easier, given time.