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Well, I am a late starter myself only started work 3yrs back the same time i met my wife (She is not a BG... but just a TG) therefore do not have much to offer.
the thing about TG is that they just "LOVE" japanese... they go crazy at the sound of jap... wonder why... and my wife is juat another JAP loving TG - at least before she got cheated and now she just wants to get back at him.
I spend all my saving on the dowry which is about 500,000THB and some gold.
I am in singapore and the standard of living is rather high compared to what i am making. We are living ok, lets just say middle income,
after paying the bills and other necessary expenses, bascially do not have much
will take me sometime to be able to match that Jap.
I am not sure if my wife is actually considering taking the offer. she might just be testing my committment again, but i can't take my chances.
I know that jap had a friend who is in constant communication with my wife/ more of a spokeman for that jap. he is telling my wife to really consider as he himself do not really agree with the idea of going back to that jap. he said that that jap is getting old and might not be able to "make children" again that the resaon he wanted to my wife back. GOD KNOWS WHAT HE IS GOING TO DO TO MY WIFE... maybe sell her to some ***** house.
The fact is the if there is a house at least there is some form of assurance for that kid of theirs. My wife says that is just "cheating the house" but i believe she did not consider the "cheating process"
Cheating process = boom boom - many times.. (i guess) and the thought of that just sucks..
i have talk to her about this and she says that i have to show some form of committment, which i did.
I have actually told my wife that i am willing to bring that kid over and stay with us. i love that kid and she is cute. We are actually in process of getting the paper work ready but as you all know this will take some time too and the appearence of this jap becomes a pressing issue
I know i have nothing to loose even if she leave me but the feeling will not be good... it hurts.. and thats the hardest thing to get over.
Guess i have to try talking some sense into her without provoking her.. which is extremely difficult. hope that she is just testing my committment again which she had done on several occassion before she agrees yes to our marriage - i fare well and hope i will do the same this time.
What i notice (based on my experience) about TG is that they are very sensitive and easily provoked (mentally unstable with violent mood swing) - maybe can start another new thread on this
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