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Total Confusion
I was involved in an unpleasant experience of being fought over the other night by two girls. Although my initial reaction was quite flattering, nevertheless what I witnessed was rather disturbing since it was never my intention to hurt anyone.
I have spent one night with this one girl previously, whom I shall call her Dee. We met via one of the fellow BM, no sex was involved that night since she was rather drunk and we just slept in the hotel. I have text her the next day saying I would like to get to know her better but I did not receive any reply from her.
Two nights later I saw her again at one of the clubs where she usually hangs out at, we said hello to each other and she introduced her two friends to me. I bought them some drinks and we proceed to go to Safari. After more drinks have arrived, Dee and one of her friend began to walk around the club, which seemed to me that they were looking for potential customers, and I was left with the other of her friend, Jee. At this point I began to think that perhaps she was trying to set me up with this friend, which was okay with me since Jee looks to me a nice girl and Dee, although very pretty, appears to be quite harden, and Jee appears kind and untamed from the patong nightlife.
About 10 mins later Dee and her friend went up to the indoor bar, without informing me, and I was again left with Jee, whom I was beginning to fall for. After a bit Dee came up to me and asked me if I wanted to take Jee home, I said yes because I truly thought it was a setup and having her asking me seems to confirmed my earlier guess.
So Jee and I talked some more while she did show signs that she liked me, she seem hesistated about leaving with me, told me that she has never done this before. I said it was okay with me, if she just wanna talk and watch tv it's all fine by me. Sex isn't a necessity for me, companionship with another kindred spirit is what I value more. That seemed to reassure her a little. So I suggested perhaps we could go up to the indoor bar to be with her friends, I was thinking that talking with her frineds might provide her with some reasurance, that however turn out to be a disastrous move.
Once inside the indoor bar Jee started talking to her friend while Dee with talking to another girl whom I have not seen before. At one point I tried to get Dee's attention by lightly touching her arm but instead I got a slap in return, which made me wonder what the hack was going on with her. Few moments later Jee finished talking to her friend, took my hand and we went outside the bar where it's quite. She told me that if she went home with me then Jee wouldn't be pleased, which apparrently was what related to her from talking with her friend. By this this I was clueless as to why Dee would be unhappy about me going with Dee since it was her idea in the first place.
All of a sudden Dee came out from the bar and started yelling at Jee, hitting her and even throw a drink glass at her. Jee cried while sitting on the ground, Waing and apologizing. Dee yelled sound damn loud the whole club heard her voice. Dee turn to me and asked me which one did I want. Then her friend whom she was talking to inside the bar came out and also started throwing punches at Jee. At this point I was shocked at the least and was rather numb to what went on before my eyes. Dee then screened at me and told me to leave immediately, so I started to back away from all these girls yelling at each other and walked to the covered sitting area. I made a call to an experienced BM whom I saw earlier during the night and asked for some advice and was told that I should take the girl I wanted and get out of the club as fast as I could.
I waited about 5 minutes and went back up to the bar. Jee was alone and was still kneeing on the ground just outside crying, which broke my damn heart cause she is innocent in this whole thing. She has done nothing wrong but she was the one getting the sh!t from Dee. I put my arms around her and told her we should head back to my hotel right now. But Dee seem to expect me to come back for she came out from the bar and started yelling again. Jee's friend, who was trying to protect Jee earlier from the punches, told me that I have to go, now. I didn't seem to be much good for me to stay. I didn't think Dee would listen to my explainlation under her state of mind at the time nor did I see any way of taking Jee home with me without further antagonized Dee and casuing more damage to Jee. So I left.
Where did I do wrong during this whole incident? What did I miss that could have given me indication of Dee wasn't ready to let me go? I realized that perhaps I have made her lose face, but again I restate that I was under the impression that she was setting me up with Jee, with her going around the club and all. Or was I being played in some sort of devious plot? What do you all think?
Sorry for the long post.
Last edited by ancientmariner : 18-11-2005 at 18:41.
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