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Originally Posted by ancientmariner
i just feel really sorry for the other girl, Jee, who is a sweet girl but she got drag into this fvckup mess of my stupid creation. i should've know better than went back up to the bar that night.
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It was a rough night for Jee, but don't put it on yourself. She is the one who chose to be Dee's friend and sidekick. With friends like that, who needs enemies? Dee is the bad guy here, not you.
Going back to the bar was a completely innocent mistake, and you did so only because your intentions were the best. If anyone should have known better, then it should have been Jee, not you.
Unfortunately, it is because you are such a nice guy that you sometimes find yourself in difficult situations, because people like Dee will try to take advantage. I hope that you learn to be better at spotting bad apples like her. But other than that, don't ever change, because the world needs more good guys like you, not less! But sometimes you do have to consider your own needs a little more, particularly when you find yourself in situations with people who will never consider your position, and are only 100% in it for themselves. Be fair to yourself as well as others.