Review of my posting
Thanks for the comments on my original post.
I agree it is 'wrong' and illegal (go to prison for it? Do you know anyone who's been prosecuted for it?) to access someone elses email a/c. It does not feel good and it becomes like a compulsion looking from afar on someone else's life without any longer being directly involved. HOWEVER had I not accessed her a/c I might now be the bewildered HUSBAND wondering what was going on. We all know it's not easy to get true information about people in Thailand. Cover up's , half truths, lies, Thai smiles. By this means I was able to be 100% certain I was being conned. I could have lost everything. Jeez I never even kissed her. I loved her. I am a lot wiser now. I know I was a fool in retrospect and she preyed on my vulnerability. That beautiful smile can cover up a lot of scheming artifice.
As for telling the other guy(s), I will not because my true motive is of revenge on HER, raining on her parade, rather than helping HIM (he's not very nice). He after all has at least got shagged by her and is not marrying her. Who am I to intervene? I do believe things happen for a reason. I was lucky to find out the truth and it kept ME safe but for the others they would not welcome my intervention because they are MEN and their ego's would not allow them to accept the reality- they would be 'playing her'.
I dont recommend accessing your BG's email a/c; that way madness lies. But be careful, read the website reports and remember "bar girls (and receptionists) are for recreation only". Knowing that won't stop me falling in love with one again though. Aaaaaaaaaargh!!!
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