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Advice
I don't have much experience but learning every day. Sounds like you are heading in the right direction. As for as the money question, it's my understanding the Philippina and Thai ladies expect or might ask for some type of financial contribution for helping their family members. The main thing is to let her know what you can and can not provide. And let her know that you need money for the two of you to survive and live in a financial comfort zone as well.
If you are really hooked on the girl who's asking for financial assistance, talk it over with her and see if you can get an understanding. If she truly want you for you, she'll understand and work with you. Right now I have a few friends in the Philippines and a few in Thailand. I've met one in Thailand. It's equal across the board. 1 or 2 of the filipinas are self supportive and 1 or 2 are very short on cash. The same with my friends from Thailand.
Talk it out. See if you can work it out and go from there.
Best wishes.
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