[Latino4life]

Originally Posted by senor123

I worked with a Phillipino guy for a couple of years.
He told me this:
Don't ever marry a Phillipino girl.
You go to bed wearing the crown but when you wake up in the morning....
She's wearing it!!!!!
Steve

Hehehe... Well I woke up like a king every morning when she was beside me and after that I started to call her "beautiful queen" I "gave her" some other names such as "my pacific ocean pearl", "my delicated tropical flower", "my sexy C.I.A. agnet" (coz she keeps record of every text I send her and print out my mails etc etc). In fact I rarerly address a girl I'm with by name, standard is "baby" or "princess". Thanks for the advice and your friend may be right, if I marry her I may wake up someday like a subject and she as the queen... Thanks for your advice Senor

Originally Posted by Oggy

If it feels right ...its right and if it turned out wrong.... well then at least you tried.
Nothing is ever perfect but somethings come really really close to it. I think you should stay in touch and take your time to enjoy being with this PI girl. A lot of what gets said here is bullpucky but I think you already know what you want.

Good luck with that man.

Good comment Oggy, I could honestly say it feels right to keep my filipina girl but I don't know about getting married thou if I would have to marry someone it would be her I think... The think is that if I don't go for it I may lose her and I don't want that and at the same time keeping her "hanging" is not fair to her, she's a wonderful woman in every way and certainly deserves a good man. I still haven't told her about my "adventures" in Thailand and to think I would like to have some adventures in Brazil and any eastern country like Russia before settling down for good. I'm going to Phuket in April and I may meet her there (buy her a ticket) coz if I meet her in pinas that will be it and I'm certain it'll be marriage issues... Thanks for the help

Originally Posted by seafox

I have met a few ladies while I have been in the PI, all of them are BG or go go girls. The first one was a cutey, lots of energy but she drove me cravy whenever I was about to go back to US so dumped her. The next girl I met on the last night of my second trip with the first girl. The first girl had gotten me pissed off and I did not spend my last night with her at the resort and then I went to Manila for the last night of my trip. This girl worked in Makati in a go go and was insatiable in bed. We had a great time that night and she e-mailed me a few weeks after I go back to the US. 2 weeks later she tried to hit me up for money for a flight to Hong Kong. I explained to her that we only spent 1 night together and I would not send any money. We kept in touch and I told her that I would be coming back to Manila and invited her to stay with me for a few days. She met me at the airport with her 16 year old sister(who was gourgeous) and I had a nice time with them(sister went out with us every night but went home every night(I am a good boy) so I invited her to go to the resort that I was going to with me. She had quit working so no problem for her and no big Makati Avenue Barfine. She stayed with me for 13 nights at the resort and we hads a good time. But she really wanted me to go Bareback with her(so that she could get pregnant) and I brought her sister and a friend over to the resort and she got jealous when I danced with her friend but the poor girl was sitting arounds with nothing to do as the club was empty but the music was going off. I gave her some money at the end and paid for everything that her and her sister did with me. Then after I got back to US and I had invited her and her sister on my next trip, she tried to get me to take her parents, pretending that she did not understand me when I told her that I had reserved the family room with 2 bedrooms, one for us and 1 for her sister. Then she went to Singapore for work. And lied to me about it so that was the last straw.

My last trip I met 2 girls, one who I really liked but who was really messed up because of a broken relationship with a Danish guy but who I would like to spend more time with as she is smart, sexy, and great looking, and a shy, quiet, sexy girl who does not have much education but is fun to be with. I was e-mailing back and forth with the first girl for a month but she has not responded to my last 2 e-mails in a month. The other girl can not wait to see me again as she lives in a pretty poor part of the country and has very few decent job opportunities so anything that she can do to get away from her home is great for her. Just she would have trouble doing anything here.

Being as old as I am, I look at the girls from 2 points of view. Will they be fun to be with on my trip for whatever reason? Will they be able to work in the US if I ever get that serious about them?

Only 1 of the PI girls that I have ever met have asked for money, so that is different than most Thai girls.

Good luck with what you decide to do Latino. Not sure if this will help but just a history of what has happened to me in the PI.

Thanks for bringing this to my attention Seafox and it certainly did help. I could say I would have great fun with my filipina girl and I can't think of any girl that knows me better both in and outside the bedroom except for my exwife. Thou my filipina girl knows me better than any woman in the bedroom evnthou we only spended 2 weeks together, I have to admit she got to know me better and what I really really like after we met, and by text and mail communication. I've had lots of filipina pens and only one asked me for money, quite harmless amounts thou (60 dolares ) that was kinda cute so I sent her chocolates and a postcard. Two weeks later she texted me thank me for the chocolates and she told me she ate them right away coz she was hungry 55555555

Not long ago I got a text from the thai lady and she wrote "I don't want girlfriend with u" which I understood as "I don't want to be your girlfriend" and of course I immediatelly offered my friendship and showed my gratitude for her honesty. I thought that it was kinda sign and I went for the break up but she texted me right away excusing her self that it was a misunderstanding and that it was due to her poor english skills. Further more she also told me she meant to say that she doesn't want to be just my "lady" but something more serious but I insisted that we should remain friends in my last text to her that night as I went to bed... Next morning I found 26 texts from her and 52 missed calls from her number... It took me a while to read all the texts and I did so on my way to work and my phone kept ringing, the cutest thing was that she even left me a massage in my voice mail To calm things down and since it's my company cellphone I agreed to continue things thou I tuned down the romance part. It seems like thai ladies don't accept easely a "dear John" letter or text. I thought that was more or less a filipina trade. Anyway thanks for your opinion