So everyone heard my whining and i figured its time for the full story.
So it all started out in Karon beach i guess 4 days or so after i landed. The night before i met Yem i had been with another girl that i met in the same bar on my first night on Phuket the bar was called Allies bar if i remember it correctly. She was wonderful no doubt but definitly not a keeper since she couldnt realy communicate at all, she was fresh in Phuket and only knew VERY basic english. Either way i had some good time with her but only for a night. She was very beautiful, very dark skin and glowing eyes, blending white teeth and a smile you could die for. And in bed she was a machine no doubt, i didnt have much to say at all about what was going on but i enjoyed every second.
The day after i got a realy bad cold, fever and all that shit, i sent the girl away and told her that maybe ill come and see her in the bar another day. After that i probably went trough ALL the shows they were viewing on National Geographics. I had a terrible time but i actually managed to get out on a few paracetamol for a dinner at nights but thats it, then straight back to the hotell with an ice pack on my forehead.
Eventually i got better, i still had a realy bad cough but nothing that would stop me from drinking and smoking too much realy. That night i went back to the bar, i didnt realy plan on seeing the same girl again but i did ask for her. Thats when i met Yem, at first she wasnt all that if im gonna be totaly honest. She's very short, and very thin, i guess cute in her own way but not what i would normally go for. She started talking about this and that and eventually she talked me into walking her home, back to her room. We didnt get that far tho, and we ended up on my hotel room instead because she said she hated sleeping alone. I was to be honest not that attracted to her at this point and i didnt realy think about having sex with her. I even told her "only sleep"
So we got into the hotel and i was about to walk up to my room with her once i hear someone yelling at me, it was the night manager yelling about Lady joiners fee. I didnt have any money on me at this time so Yem paid the 600bath and said its ok, i pay for only sleep tonight. I didnt say anything, she left her id with the manager. We got up to the room, and she said "Jimmy take shower na" But i was kinda busy with the minibar at the time grabbing whatever that was left in there and told her she can take shower first. I went out and sat on the balcony opened the jim beam whiskey. Normally im not much for whiskey but in some strange way i managed to get that 35cl whiskey down in less then the 30 min she took in the shower. When she walked out of the shower she dropped the towel, im still not sure if it was intentionally or not but none the less, as the gentleman i am, i picked up the towel and put it back around her. She said, "Very small, you dont like" With the whiskey talking i suppose i said something like "small but nice" And she was laughing and then she jumped up around my neck and gave me a kiss.
And then we didnt "Only sleep" even tho that was my plan from the beginning
We had a long night of fun together and in the morning i wake up by her jumping up on me and kissing me on my neck. I asked her if she had to go back to the bar today. She didnt want to, she said no i think you and i go to Patong today and have fun. I agreed, i hadnt been in Patong yet on this tour and ofcourse i wanned to go see how much it had changed since last time. We had a long night of dancing and drinking. She basicly had me in her strings now, i was realy starting to enjoy spending time with her, we had alot of fun together and lots of laughs. Oh and one thing, i never laughed so much as when she first started dancing, she was more or less just rolling on her head with the rest of the body just standing still. I dont consider myself a good dancer, actually im probably a terrible dancer but atleast i move when i dance!
Either way the trip with her pretty much continued with this, a few days renting a scooter driving around phuket together. She showed me everything that is worth seeing. She never ever wanted any money from me. I asked her many times if she's sure about that and the answer was always. Never worry about money, i have fun with you. Then a few days later the problems started coming, she got a call from a friend that said that the mamasan at the bar had asked about Yem and why she havent recieved any barfines. I figured id pay for the barfine so she didnt have to worry about that anymore. But she refused to let me pay. She said, i give money to you. You pay for untill today then you tell mamasan i quit the bar. I said fine, and i left her at the hotel to go talk with the mamasan and give her the money. She wasnt there but one of the girls in the bar said she would be back a little later. So i called Yem and told her that im gonna wait in the bar untill mamasan comes back. I had a few beers and started talking with some of Yems friends and had some laughs while yem was realy angry back in the hotel room.
Eventually the mamasan showed up. I tried to give her the money but she just said, Yem knows what she does, i dont take any money. I ask her if she knows that yem quit the bar and she said ofcourse, and no problems. So i left it at that, had another beer and walked back to the hotel. I gave the money back to Yem and she was even more angry now because the mamasan wouldnt take the money. I guess its about that face thing. She said, no problems for you but i live here, have to walk pass the bar everyday. Eventually she cooled down a bit and we started chatting about this and that not untill now i knew that she had a son, 2 years old. Or i guess i hadnt even asked. I went out to the balcony, and i heard that she started to cry, I walked back into the room and she jumped up on me gave me a big hug and asked me "Jimmy, what can i do when you go home, please dont go home" We had been together for about 10 days now. I was realy starting to fall for this girl or i had already fallen for her actually but i wasnt sure about her intentions, suspicious as i am. I didnt know what to answer, that was the question i never wanted, because i hadnt even been thinking about the scenario of waiting for the transfer back to the airport with her.
We spent alot of time with her friends in her room eating and talking about everything, i realy felt like i knew her. But boy was i wrong.
The day came when i had to leave. At this point we were both standing there crying like baby's as i was walking on the airport transfer. I remember how people looked at me when i walked on the bus, i tried to not look at them, just keep my face down in ground while walking over to an empty seat, trying to cover my red eyes with a news paper, but i guess it couldnt be avoided, an older man sat down next to me, and he said. "Dont worry about it, just give it time, its allways hard to leave someone you love" That didnt help me tho. she was still crying outside the bus, waving at me trough the window.