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Originally Posted by eric-the-viking
Many of us on this forum are all pretty long in the tooth ,to the point were we start to give advise out to those who we would consider newbies and just experiancing the new LOS and all the delights that pull us back like a magnet.(shame it was not the same as say 3 years ago still never mind)
we even make a point of informing fellow farang types etc to the pit falls of what could well be a head of them when they encounter these creaatures of shear beauty,
well all tell them not to fall for them , not to over pay them ,not to send them money and some of us even go as far as the 72hour rule so as not to get attached to them.
should they get a freebie ,it will not be long for the phone call and the sick releative appears,now bear with me on this guys yes ive been down the club on the cheap beer again.
but i was reading a thread earlier and i will not mention the ladies name but i could not help but think to myself ,yes but lads these girls do play a very clever game with our weak emotions . BUT to start with they are only there to make a living under the kind of family pressure or pressure from else where that we can not imagine in our cultre,with what little they have to offer.
it was then i realised how close to breaking another one of my own golden rules i had become.
the is a certain lady who works in soi eric, like i say no mention of names or bars etc.
anyway since i have been back in England we have kept in constant touch either sms ,email or her calling my mobile, i would like to think we have become v-good friends and i hope i am not wrong , but i have also realised how close and how easy it is to fall for a B.G. hence it would be the breaking of one of my own golden rules.
in the past i have stayed on a friendly basis with other b.g`s and one keeps in regular touch as a friend ,even more so now she is living in norway with her boyfriend.
i suppose what i am saying while under the influance of drink is lets lay of these girls a little ,they have only a short time to make any real money and they face more dangers everyday with different customres with things like aids,hiv etc etc than we do in our 9-5 jobs.
shit may be i have fallen for a B.G and not realised it .
so before you all shot me down i have already said to such person i know you work in a bar but can be the best of friends at least.
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I am new to this forum but an old hand in Asia and Thailand. I moved out to Asia in 1989 and have lived in Hong Kong, Korea, Indonesia, Taiwan, Thailand, and now China. I am one of these individuals who will never go back with a farange woman - they are boring, uninteresting, and DO NOT know how to satisfy a man.
While I have lived in Asia for 15 years I would still not consider myself an Asian expert. I do know that I will remain out here and retire here. I am an American but will not return for retirement.
I am currently in a relationship with a Mainland Chinese woman who I will most likely marry. She was a BG in China for several years. What I have found is that I needed to put aside my western prejudice and understand why many of these girls - whether China or Thailand get into this business. In almost all cases it has to do with money and difficult family financial situations. Yes I am not naive enough to not know that many of these girls make up lies about why they need money BUT in many cases the use for the money is not for themselves but for their family.
It took me 3 years to get my future wife to trust me as an individual. These BG's do not trust men. They know that 60% of them are married and having a good time in LOS or whereever.
These woman are tougher than any western woman would ever hope to be. In many cases they deserve our respect as this is the only way for them to make significant money.
And yes they do make us feel wonderful and can bring us sexual highs that we will never experience with a western woman.
Enough of my soapbox and I apologize gents but I do know that all of us need to take our Western prejudices and sometimes shit can them. Eric you make good comments on this forum and I enjoy reading them.
Will be in LOS in 2 days and will come to see the famous MTB.