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Originally Posted by steve@thaib
Maybe she has reached the end of the line as a bargirl, and senses that you have reached the end of the line as a monger, and sees you as compatible?
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This could be the case SteveT but also to consider is the different perspective a bg here puts on her customers, 1 or 2 nights with a guy, you are just seen as work. If she has a good time, enjoys your company and you stay with her for longer, this usually means see now sees you as her boyfriend. She could still charge but if she also stops asking for money she is now seeing you as a longer term prospect or just simply likes you. She will continue working in your absence and also even whilst you are here if you are not with her but every other rule applies to you as you are now one of her boyfriends.
If you fancy a gf experience with her again no probs, should not scare you, the only worry is you becoming emotionally attached, if this is not the case, ok. Stopping the relationship after you go is no problem, as no loss of face for her, stopping whilst here if you decided you didn't want it afterall might be a bigger problem.
You have been coming for a lot of years, are very experienced but I do understand it is always nice to here others opinions to compare to your own thoughts.