One thing which has not yet been discussed is the possiblity that if she lets you , she may want some in return to balance things out , are you happy to have an open relationship with your wife ??
A relationship which involves you going to thailand and banging bg's while she plays around at home ? are you happy at the thought of another man or men banging you wife ? can you handle this without jealousy , I'm not saying its gonna happen but you may need to consider this as she may think she needs some spice in her life too , after all why should you have your cake and eat it ?
ps..you always seem like a nice and decent bloke Dawsey so just be careful you dont screw your life up , good luck with it
