Hi Dawsey, Your problem is your wife has seen how the single guys play the game and she will suspect that is your motive for going

. A solution is take her on holiday with you and arrange a boys nite out with other board members who you have introduced to your wife and whome she trusts. Then just fill your boots on your nite out
I think you are right in not going on holiday on your own, she will suss you out, even if you say you are going to Scotland for a week you still have the imigration stamp in your passport to worry about, although I know 1 guy who cut the page out of his passport
Best of luck Dave