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Instead of asking if you can 'pay bar' just be a tiny bit more subtle and after a game or two and rapport established say ur going to go to xxx would you like to come too ??
That way if she wants to come she can say yes and or explain the bar fine or if she doesnt she has a simple subtle way to save face (yours) and say she has to stay to work (at which point you can go for a number in case).. Easy to dance around the issue with the same results..
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Men have only 2 emotional states, hungry and horny.. So ladies, if you see me without an erection, make me a sandwich.
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