Quote:
|
Originally Posted by barfly
Exactly so! As I said originally, it was asked in a completely non-judgemental way. Of course I have been to Thailand many times but don't live there( a bit of a dumb comment by someone- "why don't you go and find out for yourself") and have talked to many BGs over the years and occasionally you come across one and can't help but wonder about forming a long-term relationship with her but what are the chances of it lasting? If the answer to my original question( and a simple rough percentage number would have done) is low, would she be looked down on by other farangs and their non-BG wives/GFs?
I am sorry if this thread has touched a raw nerve, especially with Stevem as I had the pleasure of meeting him a couple of trips ago( not that he will remember!), but it only comes about from the niceness of a lot of BGs and my desire to one day live in LOS.
|
I would think the % is low but..
How many times is the BG close to a similar age as the guy ??
How many times do they have no common interests (even language) ??
How many times is the guy out screwing around cause he can ??
How many times is it based more on money / security than genuine feelings ??
Does the guy really have a relationship oir has he got a combo maid that also sleeps with him ??
I would never right off a relationship or the chance of one simply becuase a girl has been a BG but I would think that a lot of girls who have been around the block end up with a lot of bagagge and I dont mean the Lois Vitton kind.. But theres gems amound the sand and also complete heartless money grabbers in the good girl world too..