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Originally Posted by LivinLOS
I would think the % is low but..
How many times is the BG close to a similar age as the guy ??
How many times do they have no common interests (even language) ??
How many times is the guy out screwing around cause he can ??
How many times is it based more on money / security than genuine feelings ??
Does the guy really have a relationship oir has he got a combo maid that also sleeps with him ??
I would never right off a relationship or the chance of one simply becuase a girl has been a BG but I would think that a lot of girls who have been around the block end up with a lot of bagagge and I dont mean the Lois Vitton kind.. But theres gems amound the sand and also complete heartless money grabbers in the good girl world too..
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The sort of questions I ask myself. The age one would be ok for a while but maybe not 10 years down the line. There again, the BG would be 10 years older and maybe not in a position to go hunting for someone else!
I suppose my question comes from having met one or 2 BGs who I would be proud to call my wife but am I being completely naive even given the amount of time I've spent in LOS? Would I forever have to be thinking of an excuse for where I met her to integrate into where-ever I chose to live? Hopefully it wouldn't be a problem where there is an accepted BG scene.
I hasten to add that I am not thinking of any one particular girl at this time!
And to Stevem, I'm not at all surprised you don't remember me, I'm one of the quieter ones in LOS!
Can't remember seeing this subject on the board before,though.
Wouldn't life be so much simpler if so many BGs weren't so nice!