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Originally Posted by fun2have
a strong question asking for honest, dishonest, non comitting, face making, face saving and face destroying answers.
maybe too controversial for our bms, maybe too intrusive, but virtually compulsive to reply in some way.
my own circumstance is documented in a thread i started without fear of critiscism or need for reaffirment of my choice in gf soon to be wife.
some bms are honest about their start with their bg wives good on them, i present another view about my gf who i am about to marry. private information but interesting to the forum voyeur or perhaps the forum exhibitionist.
would this question be asked on a forum about any other country perhaps some SEA ones ? not sure but i am sure some of our euro/us members would know. eg ex soviet bloc wives or wives from latin american/caribbean countries.
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You are right fun2have, its a very private information and nothing you would advertise at home.But also many BM´s already posted their story or asked for advice to the other BM´s in that situation, me included. If you dont name your problem , you cant get advice.After my trip i was confused and unsecure what to do and how to go further.What answers would i have got if i had said i would have met my GF at an high-Society party?And what would the answers have helped me in fact for my real problem at that time?Many Bm´s gave me good advice, with respect and thats why i respect this forum.If anybody doesnt want to answer the question, just dont post in this thread,always up to each one if or not. Many threads about "where is the best soapy??" or "where do i get a nice BJ"... etc. etc. but on the other side to feel offended if anybody just asks how many BM´s are married or in a relationship with ex-BG´s makes me laugh.
To answer if a question like that would be posted in another forum i dont know, but this is not important and BTW the scene in eastern europe or how the most "Eastern-Girls" come to a marriage is in my experience much more different than in LOS.Its the GFE me thinks why most of the BM´s love and enjoy the TG´s and sometimes they fall in love for that.I am not an exhibitionist but as i already posted my story it would be foolish to do like i never met a BG or to hide where i met my GF. iTS HER PAST AND I LIVE IN THE PRESENT AND FOR THE FUTURE WITH HER: And YOU CAN BE sure : i dont wear a shirt :" I MET MY BIRD IN A BAR"