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I think that while, on the whole, Asian women are a lot cuter than farang women, a really beautiful farang woman is head and shoulders above any Asian woman in the appeal that she holds to me, physically.
Having said that, I still prefer Asian women. Two reasons, one of which is purely practical, and the other is what I perceive as the problems with the farang woman's mentality, in general(there are many exceptions, but they tend to be happily married).
Reason 1) Very few farang women will go with a man who is more than ten years older than them, and the age range seems to be rapidly shrinking. I know from experience that there are now even a lot of farang women who want men younger than themselves. I happen to like young women, so that rules out 90% of farang women right there.
Reason 2) Life is about making decisions. You make good decisions, you prosper, and possilby attain some semblance of happiness in your life. If you **** up, then at least you have no one to blame for it, and more importantly, each mistake is a lesson, from which you can learn to make better decisions in the future. Farang women tend to be attracted to men who are successful, which means they have some track record of making good decisions. Then from day one that the relationship becomes a committed one(like marriage), they immediately want to take away your power to make any decisions, whatsoever. Everything becomes a "joint" decision, supposedly 50-50. Would you invest in a company with two CEOs, who had to agree on every decision? Not likely, as it would soon go bankrupt, since being successful in business requires decisiveness.
In my business, I have dealt with many couples over the years, and I can tell you that in most marriages, it is the woman who has the final say on all the important decisions. Men tend to be more accommodating because if the wifey is unhappy, or in a bad mood, then she pouts and/or *****es, making their life miserable, and they are not going to get laid. So, when a woman wants something, she usually gets it, unless she is really way out of line. But when a man wants something, if he abides by the 50/50 rule, then he totally gives the decision over to her, since she has full veto power on everything. If he *****es, then he is definitely not going ot get laid. If he pouts about it, that is unmanly, and she will lose her respect for him, and not be swayed at all into giving in. If he doesn't get over it, and becomes an unhappy person, then she will just divorce him, take more than her 50% of the assets, and move on. I am not just speaking from my own experience, as I have seen this scenario unfold over and over again with countless couples.
As Oggy said, "Western women seem to want to turn everything into a power trip "We are equal only I'm more equal than you type thing."
So, as much as I admire their looks, I think that I am through with farang ladies, probably forever.
BTW, my last 3 GFs here have been African-American, Vietnamese, and Hispanic, in that order. And I certainly wouldn't rule out a relationship with a non-Caucasian, if the right one came along.
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Last edited by JayBee : 08-07-2006 at 08:06.
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