[JayBee]

I am single, but have been married. When I was married, I never went to LOS or anywhere like it. I had a friend who did and told me his stories. At the time, my marriage was a happy one, but it still sounded ilke a fun thing to do, and I suggested to my wife that we take separate vacations. She would have none of it, and all our vacations were boring trips to visit relatives. Eventually I refused to go with her, stayed at home and worked.
Was she interested in my happiness? No. Did she think that our love was strong enough to withstand my having a little fun with younger women in a far-off land? Apparently not. If love is strong, a fling with a BG won't break it. Love involves so much more than sex, which is just a small part of it.
Women are concerned primarily with security, and are threatened by other women, who they think will take their man. OR they are more concerned with what their friends and neighbors might be saying behind their backs.
Few women understand men and what makes a man happy. To any woman I say, until you have a set of ***** hanging between your legs, pumping testosterone through your system, you are judging men by the standards of what women feel and think and believe. If you want a woman for a husband, fine, many women are doing that now. But we are men and refuse to be like women. You ought not be so quick to judge. If you were a man, you would understand and might not be so different yourself.