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Originally Posted by JayBee
I am single, but have been married. When I was married, I never went to LOS or anywhere like it. I had a friend who did and told me his stories. At the time, my marriage was a happy one, but it still sounded ilke a fun thing to do, and I suggested to my wife that we take separate vacations. She woud have none of it, and all our vacation were boring trips to visit relatives. Eventually I refused to go with her, stayed at home and worked.
Was she interested in my happiness? No. Did she think that our love was strong enough to withstand my having a little fun with younger women in a far-off land? Apparently not. If love is strong, a fling with a BG won't break it. Love involves so much more than sex, which is just a small part of it.
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Repecting your partner - that's what I think that a love includes.
"Was she interested in my happiness?" As I think, wife;s happiness are her happy family with her husband and children, and her husband's happiness is her happiness - that's a family of love. Love must be built by at least two people. If she didn;t love you, or if you didn;t love her much, your love couldn;t be strong.
If love is strong, a fling with a BG won;t happen in any situation. Love involves so much more than sex - I do agree with you. So I can't agree with some guys here who share their sex life with someone else beside their wife.