[JayBee]

Originally Posted by cadia

Oh, and sorry about your family story. As we all know that people are greedy. Some women are so greedy that the only thing they care about is themselves. Some men are so greedy that the only thing they care about is themseves too - I think you can find some examples about men. So plz don;t think that all women are like your mother, and all men are like your father.

It says good thing about you that you don't want to quarrel, but it is hard for the woman to understand the man's point of view and so easy for her to judge. My mother and father were both good people. The point is that he did as you believe a man should, but got no thanks, and was treated poorly. Apparently you are Thai, and it seems that Thai people do show more appreciation and thanks to their parents and this is one of the things that is such a good thing about Thailand. In the case of my family, it was one sister and one brother who caused the problems by encouraging my mother to be dissatisfied. Eventually, she quit listening to them and things got better between them. My parents loved each other very much. But I still feel my father suffered a lot because he thought only of his family and never of himself. I did not want to end up in his position.