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Originally Posted by JayBee
BTW, the instances in which you met ******s in clubs after they got out of work don't count for this question, since they were not "on the job" when you met them, and I presume you were not paying for their services.
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Well often initial contact was cause they were fishing in the clubs late.. but I agree that probably they were more freelancing and enjoying time as well as hooking.. That probably lead into more relaxed interaction than clock watching. So sometimes money was exchanged, sometimes it wasnt.. But I agree that the fact that initial hookup wasnt in a bordello or behind windows probably made for a more social aspect.
There was one woman / girl who I did get closer with.. She worked (windows) on the houseboats in Utrecht.. 1/4 Indonesian the rest Dutch (born in Holland) and super cute little thing.. Nicknamed 'Pinda' (peanut).. I would sometimes drop through while working (doing insane hours) and she was never in a hurry to clockwatch etc and we would chat and chill after etc.. She lived up in Den Haag (so could work not locally to where she lived) and did 12 - 7 daytime shift so would be free in the evenings.. Had a Dutch boyfriend but he wasnt live in and he didnt mind that she worked, I had a low opinion of that and I think so did she..
Anyway if I was still working at 8 or 9 in Amsterdam or Den Haag I would drop in and either take her for a meal or she would cook for me and we would chill for a few hours at her place. The fact was though I would be starting work at 4 or 5 am and would be knackered by evening and didnt sleep there (except by mistake) and with me living a few hours drive further was usually gone by midnight.. So I really didnt have any time in my life to spend any with her.
Great little woman, confident, intelligent, spoke multiple languages, dressed classy, etc etc.. Wonder where little Pinda is these days. Hope shes moved on from the windows.