[mikegb]

Hi amigo,

I've seen shit like this before. Its a power struggle. A piss take. The bar girl has nothing to lose. She is not really interested in you. Its just to see if she is the prettiest peac0ck.

If you are interested, she causes trouble and has a bit of fun watching the feathers fly between you.

If your TG kicks off big style, the bar girl says "Hey, it was only joke. I only have fun" and the TG looks silly for getting annoyed.

The best thing your TG can do, is exactly what she did. Just sit there and relax. She is the winner.

I also have had shit like this before. I weigh about 120kg. I am very overweight. The first person to take the piss out of me is me.
All my friends have a joke and laugh with me. They know one of the worst things they can do is try and take the piss out of me. Not because I will hit them, but because within 2 minutes I can make them look really stupid, even if they look like Brad Pitt.

Ask Geir ( a big man ) what happens when people play fun fight with me. He ended up with his face in the dust, and a couple of other guys also try fun fight and to be hard.

Your TG is lilke that. She knows she can win, but lets the little one have her 'moment of glory'. If it really came to crunch time, I think your TG would kick the shit out of this girl, but she doesnt have to so 'mai bpen rai'.