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Originally Posted by ub2yoo
ah, now I see what you ment. I completly misread this before. You mean a 23 old girl will have more attraction to a 24 year old guy than to a 41 old one. Okay, I can see this happening more naturally.
I was more on the path of loosing control of your feelings despite age or experiences (or "never again" promises to one self), which in my opinion can happen to anyone in every stage of life.
Shit, what to do now with all this ? ;-) Poor OP who started this thread.
But, one question Red... You only mentioned that your current GF is a doctor and does not ask for money. Well, what does that really mean ? Is a doctor a better person than a carpenter ? I don't think so. She doesn't ask for money, but well, if that's all and there are no other strong feelings, it's meaningless, too. So, a bit more background on your current relationship would help to further discuss this if you want to talk about it  |
thats a very good point about what makes a better person
but as a sponsor, it can wear on you
the money i give my gf i can easily afford, so its not the amount
it's her irresponsibility that drives me nuts
the "money in her pocket spent" rationale
or the fact tht if she knows something has to be paid for 3 months before, she lets me know a day before it is due