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Originally Posted by kathleenbilly
I have been pondering this subject probably covered many times before but would like to tell this story.
I am 36 years old no longer with my girlfriend and have one child between us, a beautiful girl of three years old.
I spent one month in Thailand last year loved it, everything, the women, attitude of the place so enlightening, actually felt like I was living again.
So off again in February now my friend wishes to come but has a girlfriend, let me point out she's a lovely girl who I get on with. However he is desperate to come to Thailand and experience everything he has heard to the point of bringing his girlfriend and slipping off for short time!? He's keep telling me he not sure about settling down and wants to live a bit etc.
My point of this post is do I go back into the rat race get a girl like him again in England let her move in and have my life mapped out again?
Or do I take my chances and allow myself the freedom to come and go as I please to then risk the chance ending up a lonely old man because of it?
When she started telling me how Mark that’s his name is going to start paying for her driving lessons and then buy her a car......I thought S*it yeah your paying for sex Mark, and paying handsomely for it.
My own example a girl cost me 135 quid for one night I pulled in a club and she was nothing to write home about just makes me think what am i doing?
So confused maybe I don't know what is best for me, my personal gut reaction is to follow what felt good and Thailand opened up something in me which felt good.
Yes I pay for sex when I go to Thailand which I hate to say and is a difficult subject to broach with ordinary couple's who view it in a dim light. But looking at it mathematically it just seems to be such a bad deal to invest in a girl here such a bad return with no guarantees. It really scares me to get hooked up what if it went wrong, it would be ironic how I could be first in line to tell myself, I told you so!
So please to guys who have been in my situation and clearly continue to visit Thailand should I just be happy I had a good holiday and move on, find myself a nice girl in England and get back in line with everybody else? Or walk proud enjoy my life even if it does not conform to accepted society standards.
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god its xmas.
you should be having fun with mark and gf right now,instead of rising such a subject,that is one in which many of us have fallen,I am not gonna give you any piece of advice, 'cause it may just be the way I see it,and I don't wanna be the one that told you to do so,instead I would like to answer to a few qestions you yourself have been put in front of.
either doing back and forth,or settling down in the uk you will always be mapped up,won't you
ending up a lonely old man 'cause of it. of it what, I actually see no difference.
I personally have always paid for sex either way you look at it.
society standards, if I am not wrong you are out of it already
do what you think is best for you,your still young and the risk to find yourself a lonely old man is too far.
merry xmas
