There is nothing to add to the post above, it's a compulsory read for new members. What I want to do here is add a little plea of my own to SteveM's words of wisdom.
If you are new to the forum, or even if you are not, please check the date on the thread that you are replying to. We often get old threads dug up from a couple of years ago with some sort of witty response to a guy who asked whether he should take his girlfriend to Pattaya with him or find a new one when he get's there.
Plese resist the temptation ( temptation to answer the question that is - it's up to you whether to take your GF to Pattaya
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