Hey Guys,
Been awhile since I posted. I'm still finding my legs here in LA. It's all good though.
Recently, I had a cool job offer doing some editing on a movie and told my gal pal from Japan about it. She got all excited about it, emailed back and wrote, "I think that we should be married, I know that you are my destiny. Would you like to marry?"
Playfully, I answered back, "Would you say yes?" and I think she misunderstood my little tease and is starting to make wedding plans.
To be honest guys, I wrote this girl off long ago. I was not expecting this and I need to slow this train down, if anything. Giving up my bachelorhood is not an easy thing for this BM. IOW, I'm not all that sure that I want to marry this gal. And of course, if I go through with this, I probably will have to give up my legendary bachelor sojourns to that lovely isle on the Andaman Sea.
Anyway, I'm trying to work it over in my mind. Maybe it wouldn't be bad?
She's cool and I've known her for over 10 years. We've traveled together and spent time alone together. We get along great and most of those 10 years were mainly as only friends. See each other once, twice a year at the most when I go to Japan to visit her and other friends I have there.
We've both had relationships in the interim, but we also shag when we're single. Sorta "just happens".
She'd probably make a good wife. She's tall (for a Japanese), trim and still looking pretty at 42 years of age. Japanese gals keep their youth for a long time. Healthy and will help keep me healthy with all that Japanese cookin'. She's fashionable and feminine and I really love that.
Single Mom, but kid is in last year of high school and will go on to college in Tokyo. He would stay, she would come to LA. She's lived in the states as a student and knows what she's getting into. We have some stuff in common, but mainly we just get along great.
A couple of things kinda trouble me. Although we know each other pretty well, we've never had a real relationship per se. We've never lived with each other or been together continuously longer than, say, a week. I know her, but not like you'd know a girlfriend you saw every day for say, 6 months.
Big potential problem. We haven't had a bunch of sack time together and in the past, she's been rather unexciting in that department.
Coincidentally, I received an email from my fave old girlfriend tonight (happily married now). This good ol' American gal gave it to me with more passion than any other lady I've ever been with, including any vixen I happened upon in LOS.
Hearing from my fave-ex reminded me of how important that part of a relationship is.
I am going to have to bring this up with her. Could be a deal breaker. Or do you think she could be "trained".
Cheers Fellows,
NN