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Originally Posted by ATMwalking
MrDK, I like your post but in someways I'm not too sure what to make of it. I think you need to add in some more specifics.
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Digging up my own and others controversial posts would be counter productive. As for my own whatever conflicts I created (perceived or real) is water under the bridge; those who want the details can search the forum.
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Originally Posted by ATMwalking
There has been some newer BMs that have basically invited a flame fest. Perhaps that isn't so good. But to your point about ultimately making some new friends, I think that is the key part. As a relativity new active member, I've ruffled some feathers along the way. I like giving my opinions  But at the end when you meet up with the other BMs, it is always good fun. So I'd say never make things personal. Don't take things personally. |
In different words, my point in case. There is nothing wrong with speaking your mind or ruffling some feathers, being tactful is the key here. I am convinced that most of the individuals that invite a flame fest are much more inviting when you meet them in real life. That is all and good, but there are 20K+ members on this board and you can only meet a small percentage.
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Originally Posted by ATMwalking
You also mentioned camaraderie. Double edge sword. From reading a lot of these posts it is pretty easy to feel you are not in the gang and be turned off. Yet at the same time you see newer people being warmly welcomed into the fold. That was my experience. Turning up for drinks at the MTB is a good move and puts a different spin on posts.
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It is double edged and said above meeting puts a different spin to it all. Having said that, If you are a member of this board and value it, you must visit MTB when in Patong. I am not trying to sell another beer for Nicke, but do yourself a favour.
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Originally Posted by ATMwalking
Make a good intro post in the newbies section. More than just "Hi. I really like Thailand. Thai girls are pretty". Most of the posts in there are very forgettable and hard to comment on. Put some details in there and give people something to ask more questions about or post comments.
Also quality posts outweighs post count. I remember and spot people that make quality posts. I make a point of wanting to meet people that make good posts (such as yourself ) I think that is a good way to make yourself known. |
I agree (and thank you)
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Originally Posted by ATMwalking
Also suggest if you are new to the board and have a basic question, post it in the newbie section. It is a flame free zone. I am surprised there aren't more questions posted into that section. I really think most of the people that have been to Phuket many times or live here really want to give helpful advice.
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After my last few and more extensive trips I have found myself much more capable of being a resource to new members and take pleasure in answering questions where I can.