I think that a Bm on the board and in real life can be very different! Maybe a bm you liked here, because his post were appealing to you can be a s**ker in real life when you meet him in person.
I had the experience many times! I am a hi-fi fan and spend quiet some time on Hi-fi forums! When there is a togetherning for a fair or just a diner, it is incredible to see how people are different in the "real life" as you imagined!
On one of this forums there was a guy attacking everybody wanted always the last word. Although I do not easy quarel on a forum, I managed to have some words with him!
When I met him in real life, I had to admit, that he was one of the most charming guys of the forum I met!
Not only was he quiet intelligent, he really new everything about Hifii!
I honestely think that what you are writing on a forum, doesn't always reflect your personality! What is written, can have larger consequences than spit out in a real conversation!
I always judge, when I have met the person in real life!
