If you want a bar in Patong full of blokes and no women you should try this place; you are guarnteed not to be pestered by women
Fabulous Bar on Phuket Island: www.kohjoy.com 
you could also try these 2 for good sports and live music. They are owned by the same people and the format is very similar, live band irish and western songs and western booze and food, quite popular with families and sounds like what you are after.
But then again I bet when you are back home you are asking people for bars where women hang out;
Scruffy Murphy's Irish Pub - Phuket - Home
Molly Malones Irish Pub Phuket - Molly Malone's Irish Pub Phuket
Regards
Drew