[LivinLOS]

Originally Posted by Nero

Thanks for your comments, She also would buy me gifts but as you say falanger, it was my money anyway.

Being fair she did pay for the odd taxi, icecream here and there, but what Livin LOS has said is very true she was milking me gaining the commissions from the 'ladies drinks' I purchased for her and the other bar staff. It was every day until I had had enough and l just got up and left saying 'I off for something to eat'.

I never went back to her and the bar until she arrived at my hotel room 2 days later at 12.30am in the morning wanting to pick up her toothbrush, clothes and phone charger etc.

She asked whether she could come in to pick up her stuff, unfortunately I had someone else in my room at the time, she realised this and left crying and saying 'what went wrong'. She appeared to generally care for me and our relationship and my heart bled for her.

The other person got up and left soon after, I went and saw the gf at the bar the next day with her 'stuff' and with within an hour we were solid once again.

We never went back to the bar for the rest of my holiday, but she got over the fact that I had cheated on her with another person pretty quick!!!!!

OK well if this is the relationship basis then its basic BG stuff.. Your an income source.. Shes playing that.. Your paying for drinks and shes making.. Theres a dust up and she only cares about loss of earnings.. As soon as she sees you again and incomes back on so is she..

Dont confuse this.. Its just bar work..