Shanghai,
Welcome to the board.
To most effectively solicit suggestions, follow these three simple steps:
- Search the board for any specific topics for which you are looking for suggestions. I.e. Hotels in Patong; Nightlife in Patong; Massage for the Wife, etc.
- Start your own thread to introduce yourself; after a while threads like this tend to go dormant and few will read your comments/questions
- Ask specific question to topics that you cannot find the answer to by searching. There are a lot of people here ready to help, but don't make us guess what your intentions are.
Good luck and hope to see a proper introduction and some good questions from you.