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Originally Posted by brit
Regards the latest request I'd guess what happened is that family caught wind of the cash injection and her new job (likely from her bragging about both herself) and dad has effectively responded with "great, now you can give us 10000 baht/buy me XXXX". She's in a situation now where she has to deliver or face disappointing the family and a massive loss of face, hence the need/request for "some" amount of money with no specific reason or amount given.
You should take note of both marc26 posts I think they are the best summary and advice you will see on the thread. It sounds like you are leaning towards a breakup however so I would just add in that case I don't think a "F*** off" to her would be a fair response - you are partially responsible for this situation by giving her certain expectations by your own actions. As has been said it is possible to recover from this but it involves figuring out what you want and then setting the boundaries.
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I completely agree with Brit's post...very likely a loss of face somewhere, even if it is not with family but with friends.
Also, LivinLOS comment about the fact that these girls don't "date" well, priceless observation - very very true. Like a 2-speed fan, on or off. I might also add, once off it is nearly impossible to turn on again! (in my experience anyway)
Cheers, Robaht