Hi Loko
Sorry to read about your dilemma but i will just make a couple of points.
1. Brothers and fathers do usually put alot of pressure on daughters to provide funds, usually for booze or old motorbikes or something. If you hang around with this girl you will hear it all as she gets to know and trust you more.
2. You obviously like this girl alot. If you dont give her the money you will always wonder should I have gien it to her? was she genuinely in desperate need?
3. What she is probably looking for is not alot in sterling. I would suggest paying this time but then sort out the future.
4. Think of all the fun you had with her and put the few quid down to experience.
I look forward to seeing how this one ends up. I think most BM's encounter this at some stage in the LOS
Good Luck
