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That's a hard one my friend. I would probably be in the same quandry if I was in your shoes. But standing back from it since it isn't me I would say this...
Be honest with her about not wanting a steady relationship at this time, but let her know how much you like her and want to be with her. Tell her since you have just gotten divorced you would like to play the field for a while without being tied down. Try to be as honest as possible with how you feel. Think about this...how would you feel if she went with other men. Would you be jealous? That might tell you something.
Of course, she may very well say that's OK for you to be with other women, but in private it may hurt her very much and I can see you don't want to do that.
It's a hard situation and I don't think there is a good answer. Maybe you will get better answers here than mine.
Chok dee.
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