Originally Posted by Neon
I hope you read my post before making your decision about telling the truth or not, just another point of view for your food for thought.
I have just returned yesterday from my 3rd trip to LOS, I had the same TGF on my first 2 trips, and whilst drunk, stupidly had promised to return to be with her on my 3rd trip, however, I fell out of love with her for various personal reasons, and made the apocolyptic mistake of not telling her, I should have had the balls and courtesy to phone and explain, but I just let it go. I bumped into her on my 4th night whilst with my current TGF, oh dear !!!! She wanted to talk to me and I spent the next half an hour being verbally castrated, she had no interest in what I tried to say, because in her eyes I was a bad man, dishonest, and untrustworthy, basically a liar, which in a TG's eyes is probably the lowest of the low, my only expectations where to leave as good friends, no chance, In the end I appologised for being a twat and left, then I had to explain everything to my TGF who as you can imagine was now suspicious about me etc etc etc. A few nights later whilst sat in another bar with my TGF and her friends, the ex walks in and demands I fall off the face of the planet, she then walked out and a few minutes later returned with 7 thai males and pointed me out to them. Now I am a big chap, over 6'1" tall, I train very very hard in the gym, and if trouble presents itself one on one then so be it. However I sh*t myself, I know the score about thai men and in numbers what they are quite capable of, I decided to beat a hasty retreat with my friends, there was no way I wanted to end up in hospital, or worse the monkey house, and I don't know any of the MIB out there, so I think it was the right move. I should think this is a little extreme comparably to your situation, but the lesson I have learnt and is etched on my small brain, NEVER LIE TO THAI GIRLFRIENDS !
Best of luck with your dilema mate.
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