[luv u long time]

Originally Posted by bassass

many many ladies out there and lots of time ahead of you.do not let your ****, steer you thru life.it is so damn easy to get layed.take a minute and ponder this,and i do not meen to pry but it was brought up in your post.your son seems to be a very big part of your life.i know how woman try and make you the biggest ass and loser.you may think he is already turned against you,but in reality you are his blood and it runs thru his veins.if money is no problem to you,maybe cancel your transfer to hk for work,or anywhere that is far from HIM.stay close by and try and patch things up.f--k his mom ,you have a right to be his dad.You will know in your heart that you tried.and never stopped.he will return to you someday ,if he knows that you never stopped trying.So if you stay close by,keep taking trips to los,...or anywhere you can.Do not settle down with another hole ,just concentrate on your boy.

good on ya mate very well said!! not one of us actually gave him that advise and i think its probably the best advise given on this thread!!