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Originally Posted by bassass;
many many ladies out there and lots of time ahead of you.do not let your ****, steer you thru life.it is so damn easy to get layed.take a minute and ponder this,and i do not meen to pry but it was brought up in your post.your son seems to be a very big part of your life.i know how woman try and make you the biggest ass and loser.you may think he is already turned against you,but in reality you are his blood and it runs thru his veins.if money is no problem to you,maybe cancel your transfer to hk for work,or anywhere that is far from HIM.stay close by and try and patch things up.f--k his mom ,you have a right to be his dad.You will know in your heart that you tried.and never stopped.he will return to you someday ,if he knows that you never stopped trying.So if you stay close by,keep taking trips to los,...or anywhere you can.Do not settle down with another hole ,just concentrate on your boy.
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Kids are important. It's about the love and about the blood connection that never breaks, even when you are separated by time and distance. But better to go away, rather than to let the ex use your son as a pawn in her game to hurt you. And better not to dwell on a bad situation. Your love for your son will always be there. You can write, send gifts when appropriate, and invite him to HK, then he will know that you are there for him.
But you can't put all the cares and the life of a grown man on a small boy's shoulders. You have to go out there and get on with your life, experience life, experience women, and learn whether or not you need the real love of a real woman in your life. From the impression I get of you, the answer to that question will be yes, you do. It is always fun to play around a little bit, get some more experience, have some good laughs, and find out what is out there in the way of available women. But let's face it, some guys just do not have the butterfly gene, and in the end, will not be happy playing the field forever. It will get old before long, and they will be faced with the cold realization that , for them, there is just no substitute for the love of a good woman.