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Originally Posted by marc26
actually, I think is the worst thing you can do
by not relaxing and getting to know her in her bar for a bit and allowing her to get comfortable with you and then dragging her along to another bar, you bring her out of her comfort zone, which is a sure-fire way for a Thai girl to wilt
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You're probably right up to a point. And that is where feeling out the vibe comes into play. But at some point, and I think sooner is better, if you really want to get to know a girl, I think you need to relate to her directly, and not as part of her group of friends, especially with all the face issues that can arise.
If you are just looking for fun, not looking for more than a one-night relationship anyhow, then would you rather be partying with your friends or her friends? As they say, it's "Up to you," and you are picking up the tab, so why not take full advantage. Besides, your buddies can speak English and hers can't!!
Also, if you get her away from her bar, and she pulls the "I'm so bored," or sulking routine, then better to find out sooner than later, cause you're better off moving on to the next one. Less time wasted.