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What you are doing is a very brave but also very wise thing...
I am sure you will get a lot of ribbing and jokes and I hope that any one that does take you up on this has the decency to provide any negative information in private. It must also be said that the BM must treat this very seriously and NEVER let on even after that she is being tested (esp if she passes) trust is essential and if she feels he does not trust her that itself could end the relationship..
I myself had a lot of issues but learnt after a year or two of jealousy that I did have a diamond, I actually heard one guy in banana asking her to join him on his 20m yacht and sail from there to Ibiza and onward.. She made >100k Euro per year when she met me so I guess money was not what she was driven by. There are plenty of diamonds in the sand.
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