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Originally Posted by ivanlim
this might sound chauvinistic and a little rude, but I think he hopes to get lucky.
in any case, you should let him know where you stand at the moment.
(even if you don't know where you stand, let him know you don't know where you stand)
saves a lot of trouble and kinda prevents the: 'but you led me on. i flew all the way from london' speech.
btw, selamat datang kaki lang.
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Selamat Datang Chloe, apa kabar?
I think I agree with Ivanlim here. The guy sits in an airplane for about 12 hours to meet with you, so he is very interested in you. You say you are a bit shy on this situation, but he may be even more shy than you.
Think good what you would really like yourself. What is your impresion of him? Do you (start to) like him?
And make sure you tell him so in clear language, so mis-understandings can be avoided as much as possible.
Success and selamat jalan.