[pablo]

I'm amazed at the number of guys who travel 1000's of miles to Thailand, get a bit "horned up", then settle for a massage and HJ/BJ.

Maybe, it's the "I'll be true to my spouse/gf thing....and they subscribe to the "Bill Clinton" school, "I did not have sex with that woman!" And, if that's what you want...OK by me.

Nothing wrong (IMO) with a nice massage, and "happy finish". (as a fill in) But, if that's the extent of interrelationships (while in LOS), I find it rather sad.

The ladies in Thailand are so much fun to be with, dine with, drink with...and spend a whole evening with, you're selling yourselve's short, by having just a quickie massage.