[dennisinkamala]

I have noticed a few threads lately (most of them thankfully removed by moderators) where questions are asked about BG's and the tone of the questions are somewhat offensive.

Whatever personal preferences people may have, I would suggest that this board is not a forum for airing fetishes or requesting information on those of BG's.

These girls are not pieces of meat to be used and abused, they are, in the main, beautiful ladies looking to find a partner.

Cultural differences may mean you see them, initially, in a different light and arrive in Phuket with preconcieved ideas but, if you have any soul, that changes rapidly.

Remember also that many BM's have Thai wives or girlfriends and you are insulting them too when you write disparaging things about the BG's.

It is right and proper to ask questions to prepare yourself for your visit and arrive with sufficient information but, as an adult, it is up to you to discover the lady you want to spend time with.

What is not correct is to deride or otherwise speak negatively about the people who live there or assume they are somehow less important than you.

many of these ladies come from the villages and are supporting their whole family the best way they can.

Their way of life is neither seedy nor less worthy than yours nor is it less respectable.

In short, please, when asking questions, treat the BG's with the considerable amount of respect they deserve, to do otherwise is to show your complete lack of understanding and humanity.

Just my 2p.