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Originally Posted by LivinLOS
But I still dont understand how this has 'changed you' ??
Take the sleeping for one night out.. And whats the difference between "being with someone for personal gain" and any other relationship where the major appeal is the fact you come from a wealthy background..
I am not trying to pick at you or argue.. I do understand where your coming from.. Only I have seen complete b1tches that were good girls and known great girls that were in the scene.. I think either approach requires a long term commitment to staying here to find out prior to the visa to Europe and not seeing them in thier natural environment. Plus you then get 6 months and its real western marriage time (to stay in UK) which puts other pressures on..
I would use the money to spend 6 months here finding miss right.. No matter where you looked for her..
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I know its a huge gamble no matter how i dress it up sure it's a big risk, but i can only work within the confines i am given. I am going to use my experience of judgement when meeting these girls in December to hopefully allow me to choose someone that's will settle down for all the right reasons. It could go wrong but what if it goes right ? It's something that could work perfect for me, I can debate it, talk about it, or better still go and do it.
Works for many people if it's works for me great if not no real big deal I'm a big lad my old life will still be there waiting for me.
One thing for sure which I haven't felt in a while is I am really looking forward to this trip in December.......