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Popular questions posed concerning marriage
and Thai wives.
Question 1: Why do I need to use an introduction agency to help to find a Thai wife?
If you are one of the growing band of disillusioned genuine single Western gentlemen, who is "sick to the back teeth" with the new breed of twenty-first century woman. If you are disillusioned with the kind of de-feminised, over sized, self-centred, mercenary minded lady, available on the Western singles scene, who is only out for what she can get. Perhaps you are not "Gods gift to women", feel that you are past your sell by date, or; are a workaholic, with no time to socialise, or when you do experience the singles scene, find it very shallow, and are completely disillusioned with it all.
Any man who has visited Thailand, will tell you how easy it is to meet the WRONG type of Thai lady! And how it is virtually impossible, to safely meet a decent Thai lady.
The ONLY way to successfully meet a decent honourable marriage minded Thai lady is via a professional, ethical, reputable, experienced, Thai Government registered introduction agency such as XXXX (Our Bangkok Company).
Question 2: What is so special about the Asian bride service provided by XXX and why should I choose your agency?
At XXX, we introduce gentlemen to the kind of decent, marriage minded Thai ladies, who they could only ever realistically be able to meet, if they were a long standing respected friend of the girls family. - An impossible unrealistic scenario.
Our non traditional Asian service is FULLY comprehensive. We are there for you at EVERY stage of the process; from initial introduction, through to engagement and/or marriage, visa preparation, visa interview and after care service, whilst the Thai lady settles in her new home country.
We do provide a complete comprehensive service; from first contact, to ultimate marriage and beyond. We arrange flights, hotels wedding ceremonies etc.
PLEASE NOTE. THE ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS 12 AND 13 ARE NOT OUR PERSONAL OPINION, BUT THOSE EXPRESSED BY THE HUNDREDS OF LADIES WHO HAVE ENROLLED ON OUR BOOKS OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS. WE ARE NOT IMPLYING THAT ALL THAI MEN ARE BAD!!!
Question 12: Why do these beautiful Thai ladies want to leave Thailand, to travel thousands of miles to a different culture and climate?
They are just looking for what they cannot easily find in their own country - a good, sincere, kind hearted gentleman, who they can love and care for, who will do the same for them. There are many more women than men in Thailand, and a great shortage of eligible men. Thailand is a very male orientated society. There is a strong bias towards men in the workplace, and elsewhere. Ladies are considered “over the hill” at 28 years old! Many Thai men tend to be very promiscuous; often having more than one wife, and several occasional girlfriends. They are generally not looking for a long-term stable relationship. Not good husband material!
PLEASE NOTE. We are NOT saying that ALL Thai men are bad!! There are good and bad in EVERY race.
Thai women are not fully equal to their male counterparts. They are governed by a variety of legal, religious, and cultural restrictions.*
Traditionally, women are expected to remain sexually inactive until marriage. Abortion is only available in cases of rape, or serious health problems. Respectable Thai ladies do not go out on the town alone, and
those that do are assumed to be prostitutes.
Thai men, on the other hand, can, as we have said before, be very promiscuous, before and after marriage. It is not unusual for the Thai man to have an unofficial second wife, and a number of girlfriends.
In most cases the married Thai lady is powerless to do anything about this. If she complains, he will simply divorce her, causing her family great shame, and the lady great financial hardship.
She will have no state benefit to fall back upon. There is no such thing in Thailand. The onus is upon her family for support.
Question 13: Why do these ladies want to marry a Western man?
Divorce in Thailand is quick, easy and cheap. Newly divorced Thai women have little opportunity or desire to remarry Thai men. The old analogy of a Thai marriage where the lady is likened to the back legs of an elephant, and as such is the stabilising directing influence, is a good analogy. Indeed women are often as important as men, in the economic contribution to the household, but their role is staying in the background behind their men, supporting them.
Many Thai ladies are rebelling against this intolerable treatment by their unfaithful husbands. Many now in fact initiate divorce proceedings, accepting the hardship, and repercussions of their actions. Other young unmarried Thai ladies see this scenario all too often, and have no desire to follow this unsavoury route of marriage, followed by divorce. They are now looking to Western men to provide the stable monogamous relationship which they seek.
They consider that Western men possess important qualities, which are sadly lacking in many Thai men. That they are loving, caring , faithful, and will provide the long term security which they crave.
Question 14: Do these ladies want to leave Thailand to escape Poverty and hardship?
No, this is not their prime directive. Thailand has a robust economy, with a shortage of labour in certain fields of employment. In point of fact, the ladies on our books are more than happy to consider a good Western man who wants to live in Thailand with them.
We do not deal in economic migrants!
Question 15: Where do the ladies come from?
Our ladies come from most walks of life, and from all over Thailand.
They all live and work in Bangkok, as that is where all the work is to be found. They occasionally return to the country for public holidays.
Question 16: What kind of ladies are on your books?
Decent single gainfully employed marriage minded ladies, from all walks of life. We have many office workers, teachers, many university graduates, with good jobs. Also housekeepers, hairdressers etc
POPULAR MISCONCEIVED SCENARIOS RE MEETING THAI LADIES.
(a)" Attempting to meet a suitable decent Thai lady in a social situation, who
is not meeting men every week as part of her living, and about whom it is
possible to discover a reliable verifiable history "
Answer: It is virtually impossible; to meet a decent single marriage- minded
Thai lady in a social situation in Thailand, as these ladies would not be
available to meet.
Yes; there are hundreds of Thai ladies to be met in social situations in
Thailand, however always remember, that when you go home, they have to earn
their keep, from somebody else!! To meet a decent lady, you need to use a
reputable agency, like XXX, which has investigated the background
and social status of the lady.
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