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Originally Posted by MisterFun
I try to meet the jealousy head on and deal with it internally. She has a past and I have a past. Hers just happens to be more interesting than mine...lol. It cost me nothing to get her out of the game, she is now going to school studying English and computers. I wil be totally honest, I am NOW paying for her school and her room. Mamason booted her out when she quit. After I got back to Iraq I had mentioned the bar to her and got *****ed at by her, her response that she quit the day I flew back. It is difficult to explain, but we really had a connection from the moment we met. I commented that she has not been in the game long, I think that helps. She has not become hardened and jaded as I have seen some. I am definitely not pushing her away. I told her to stay in Patong and we will just prove old mamasan wrong. She can go to the bars anytime she likes. I do not want her to leave for the very reasons you mentioned. All her friends are there. I like her friends and they like me (I think this is key). How do I know with certainty that she has quit? Quite frankly, I don't with certainty. It is however something very easy to check up on. FreeLancing on the other hand is harder to check on. Someone please put a gun to my head, but I am now to the point where I trust her. Everything I have been able to check on and verify, she has been spot on 100%. There is always the possiblity of a younger/better looking model coming along, that holds true back in the states. There is nothing I can do about that one other than treat her the best I can and deal with it if it happens. Steve, I do not take your questions or comments as a dig, and I am happy to discuss it. If you have questions please feel free to ask. Who knows, six months down the road I could be one of those on here whining "Oh she broke my little heart", but I am willing to roll the dice and take that chance.
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Just be very careful. I've seen friends get serious with BG 's that become their GF's and vice versa and you would think that butter melts in their mouth. But they still play up or work on the side even when they have got lots of money coming to them each month.
Just remember they know that you will be checking up on them............