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Originally Posted by Bafana
Thats the problem mate - Been burnt big time by a so called normal girl and I can't bring myself to trust any woman anymore...
How to learn to trust again???
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I am certainly no expert on this subject. All I know is what works for me. My love for my GF is unconditional...not blind and stupid...unconditional. I know she has a past..as do I. Yes in the beginning I did check up on her and verify everything I possible could. I am now satisfied that she has been 100% truthful with me. I do not give trust away, it is earned. And I feel she has done everything to earn my trust. Is it missplaced? Only time will tell. The only thing I can control in this relationship is me. Therefore I shall try to be the best I can be and treat her accordingly. I don't think there is way to "learn" to trust again. You will know when you "can" trust again. This is getting deep, me, mister-I-don't-normally-trust-anyone, trying to present ideas on this subject....lol